I have written three chapters of “Coming Into Focus” so far. The book is supposed to be about falling in love and figuring out that sex is not the same thing as love. When someone falls in love, they take chances, they put their heart on the line for someone they really care about. Sex is something you can have without feelings for someone. That’s why making love is different than having sex. It has feelings all wrapped up inside of it. And you can only truly make love if you are in love.